21 Jul 2008

Insecurities and Questions!

Why does your figure determine your popularity? Why does it define your coolness quotient? Why is it that guys only fall for girls who are:
  1. Thin and fair
  2. Thin
  3. Fair
Why is it that someone who doesn't fall in this category, doesn't get that deserving second glance??

Why is it that our brains, our love for life, our exuberance, our infectious laughter and our personality all ignored? Why is it that, something as vain as beauty, is the one thing that matters??!!! That a 24 inch waist matters? And that Kareena Kapoor who looks likes a frail stick, more than a human being, get more attention than say, Konkona Sen; who is a brilliant actress?

My friend had a recent experience wherein a guy said that he would much rather go for hot bimbos than women who could think...

Like WTF!

Why does materialism rule our society? Why can't we look beyond the obvious? Why is it beauty over brains and not the other way around?

Think people think. And be honest! Would you give that not-so-fair and chubby girl a second look? Or would you spend up most of your time wishing you could do/be like, the pretty but vain girl?

And men, please; you are destined to be tall, dark and handsome! Not tall, fair and metro sexual/milky white/ pretty/ dainty, whatever. Get over the obsession to be fair! Get a tan! It turns on more women than they would admit!

For women:

Thin isn't in!

And if you are tanned, you are one mysterious, enigmatic, seductive and alluring chick and at the same time you are not one very white Kareena Kapoor!

Ahh, the joy it brings!

77 comments:

Joel said...

its all basic bialogy ... the cave man instict ... its from the time when man dint know about the brains part .. so all that was needed was beauty ... beauty meant better genes .. better genes meant ud have children that would survive .. keep ur gene in the genepool .. alas most of us haven't come outta the cave man thing as yet .. the above also applys to gurls as well .. they were looking for the better built stronger alpha male who could have kids with the same fighting chance .. trouble is the instict still remains even though the times have changed ..

to best explain this watch the movie called Idiocracy its a laugh .. and proves a point too ;)
>:D<

kyamaloom said...

The world is a rotten piece of shit. Period!
I'd any day prefer the 'thinking' one rather than a dumb blonde.
And who on earth says looking 'thin' is sexy? Fuck it. Kareena Kapoor is a white lizard everyone knows. I loved her when she was 'normal'. Sigh!

On other hand, dumb thin and all that jazz kinda chick will always be attracted by dumb guys too. Like attracts like! Think!

And is it really necessary to have your so called "dream guy/girl" be just like someone whose made an exit out of Mills n Boons. And who fucks like a pornstar?

I say. Bullshit!

Mihir Pathare said...

It's not my fault pretty girls look prettier than not-so-pretty girls!!!

kyamaloom said...

And then come on, for stoopid asshole guys it will always be easy to go around with a dumb blonde rather than the 'thinking' one. Coz, since the former is dumb, all she would require is a fuck or two at the end of the day. Thats it. While with the other one, the guy will have to 'actually' act wise and 'be' in love! ;)

And as far as the 'beauty with brains' combo is considered. I am yet to witness, the 'brain' part, forget compromising with the beauty. And mind you, here brain doesn't means girls with liners like "I think more than I should" and "Hey, Love is ... (insert some quotes from books)" kinda female.

:P Sigh man!

kyamaloom said...

And most importantly. If you start looking out for a reason in the other sex to go around. Dude thats not love et al. Your hawt chick wont be hawt always!!

Anyways, I better zip up! :P

Mihir Pathare said...

"I have a theory about why there's more dumb girls getting lucky than smart ones, looks be damned. I shall explain it when I get back home from college this evening."

- Professor t1

Vishesh said...

hmm...well i prefer ppl who think...comeon when i am on the fatter side(ok,thats a lie at 6 ft 75 is proper i think) i dont care away way...i still haven't bothered abt going around...but super thin girls freak me out...i can't stand 'em donno why...

Keshi said...

haha good one girl! I love it :)


So true..most men r forever stuck on THIN-N-FAIR! Mebbe they need therapy to get over that.



**And if you are tanned, you are one mysterious, enigmatic, seductive and alluring chick and at the same time you are not one very white Kareena Kapoor!


soooo true!


But IMO, I find tanned girls VERY HOT. Not that Im a lesbo lol! But I find tanned skin hotter than FAIR.


Keshi.

Scribblers Inc said...

Sutta leaves behind a trail of smoke and ash...and rightly said, who cares man...you either love or you dont...all that "skin-deep" beauty thingy is indeed true...after all, you cant play scrabble with a "twig" can you??

Scribblers Inc.

P.S.-Did I say twig??I actually meant twit!!:)

Meghna said...

tell u somthng.....I study in a girls school and v had a debate recently....Is It Better To Have Brains Than Beauty.....and tot the surprise of all teachers, the winner was beauty.....I think it proves it that girls rate their physical beauty more than their brains.......I've a dark...really dark complexion but actually, I like the feel of it....Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder, they say :)

Chronicler said...

its their way of pandering their dumb male chavenistic soul... who are absolutely incapable of handling intelligence and intellect just because they'd never been blesssed with any of it...haha!!!

Heart'n'Soul said...

Men will always be biased...cnt help it, but it feels worse when some women also act this ways...

Had written somethin similar sometime back

http://silentbeauty2001.blogspot.com/2008/04/my-pride-and-your-prejudice.html

Saim said...

trust me on dis...it is only brainless, IQ-less guys who put physical beauty @ top priority...
of course its a different matter altogether that d proportion of such guys to d sane sort is highly mismatched!!!
Get a tan! It turns on more women than they would admit!...now thts fodder for thought:D

Saim said...

btw...check comments section in my blog...I left instructions on how to post d mosaic:)

rainboy said...
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rainboy said...

nothing left to say ..Mr.sutta has said it all.

Toon Indian said...

hey I like dusky women!!!

Sameera Ansari said...

Alas!We are living in a material world... :)

Gunjan Aylawadi said...

well i guess it depends on ones personal preferences!
u have to be wat u want!

b a thinker if u want a thinking man , be sexy if u want a hottie, n d likes!

joie de vivre said...

anin ladke are supportin u on dis.
gud...aacha issue uthaya hai tumne.

Anindita said...

@ Joel

Cave man notions! Hehe!! Unfortunately it still prevails! :|

But, as long as we have people like you, life is good!! ;)
>:D<

@ Sutta

And is it really necessary to have your so called "dream guy/girl" be just like someone whose made an exit out of Mills n Boons. And who fucks like a pornstar?

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAA!!!!

Your hawt chick wont be hawt always!!

Hear hear! :)

@ Mihir

I sure would like to know about your theory! Do get back! :)

@ Vishesh

6 ft!! Hmmm... You are tall!! :D

Nice to know you like the flesh more than the bones!! :D

@ Keshi

In my opinion, tanned girls are not only hot but also give out an impression of being realistic. As in, they live, they just don't sit in their houses and cars, scared to do anything lest they break a finger nail!! :D They go out! They live! But then again, it is a very prejudiced opinion!! :D

Anindita said...

@ Scribbler's Inc.

Lets play Scrabble sometime! Twit! :D

@ Meghana

Be proud of the way you look! IT makes you the person you are and yes, beauty does lie in the eyes of the beholder! The rest of them can just go to hell!! :D

@ Swayam

Well said!! :)

Take a bow, girl!

Men can never handle being inferior! :D It super hurts their ego! Especially when they are proven to be brainless!! :)

@ Divkiran

I totally understand what you mean! Will go through your post soon!! :)

@ Heh.. Ofcourse the proportion is not matched! It shows! :D
I will check the blog asap! :)

Anindita said...

@ V

Okay!

@ Rahul

Good for you! ;)

@ Sameera

Materialistic pleasures.. *sigh*

Don't even get me started!! :D

@ Gunj

Well if we have to be what we want, a thinking hottie seems like a very good option!!!! ;)

@ Joiedevivre

Thank you!
And frankly speaking, I am surprised with the support! Maybe the true colours don't come out here!! ;)

Cяystal said...

Wtf.
The world sucks when it comes to judging people..er,girls to be specidfic.Period.

Who the frigging fuck said a girl who is 'thin' is sexy?
Maybe I'm a li'l bit f extra pounds..but it doesn't really matter!
Cos when you have some mark to make on the world..certainly beauty will behind brains (not now.then hopefully later! :P)

And the heck do i care if i get a guy who isn't wht some other chics may define as "sexy"
but when you really like him..does it even matteR? :)
love n stuff is blind you know :p

(ignore the points whre i ran off topic! :D)

Anurag said...

Quote :
Not tall, fair and metro sexual/milky white/ pretty/ dainty, whatever. Get over the obsession to be fair! Get a tan! It turns on more women than they would admit!

Even Milky White is out..ohh no..
:(:(:(

Lucifer said...

coz we r human...n we thought abt wat was good for us we wudnt have been thrown outta paradise

ps :blogrollin ya

Shravan Vijayaprasad said...

I know! even I have an obsession on thin girls!! Not fair ones.. But I don't really give a second look to anyone fat!

I do like Konkana Sen but when it comes to my personal life, I prefer thin girls cos I'm pretty thin looking!

And for the tan u asked guys to get, I got a new tan and a even newer haircut that's kinda making everyone look at me.. (in a wierd way..lolz)

Ankur Kakkar said...

fairness doesnt necessarily mean beauty .. and neither deos thin mean sexy... BIPASHA BASU is neither of the two !! and i believe she's the sexiest woman alive !!

it is entirely a matter of personal opinions and choices .. dark is no longer a taboo..

plz this is the 21st century !!

Solitaire said...

Its no longer about the complexion anymore because Bipasha Basu is equally liked but yes, some men do like bimbos who can hardly think and who have great boobs and asses. Sorry for being crude.

Anonymous said...

Oh! I definitely don't agree with you with this one particular thing! I love Konkana Sen!!! I think she's beautiful! :)

Keshi said...

Anindita ur not being prejudiced. Its the truth!

Guess why men r afraid of me. Cos Im not a bimbo. LOL!

Keshi.

Cinderella said...

You totally killed there when you said "men are mean to tall darn n handsone" !!!!

I say bang on that one. I dont particularly lilke gore gore ladke....they look feminine to me somehow. A man is supposed to look like a man, just like you said.

For me personality beats looks anyday. My fiance is a sturdy sawla tall guy n I'm this tiny si fragile si...for a long time frens couldnt understand how the hell we hooked up (main kya karu he grew up big time after school n I didnt!!)..lol...until they finally gave in...

There are ppl who are out there who doent fall for just looks...look at Beyonce..lol !!!

Chuck the fakes is all I'd say, if you are genuine you will get someone who's genuine too. Someone somewhere is made for you.

Pursuit of the glitteratti is justa part of the metamorphosis.

Solitaire said...

@ Cinderella,

So agree with you. In the end, its the heart that matters. Not the looks.

Hemanth Potluri said...

people always r bac of beauty not love...true love resides with inner beauty and not outer appearance...there is no chance of changing all but a few can be changed with the words from most caring ones...\


***And men, please; you are destined to be tall, dark and handsome! Not tall, fair and metro sexual/milky white/ pretty/ dainty, whatever.

hahah yeh will try to follow it ....:)

urs..hemu

humbl devil said...
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chacha said...

"And men, please; you are destined to be tall, dark and handsome! Not tall, fair and metro sexual/milky white/ pretty/ dainty, whatever. Get over the obsession to be fair! Get a tan! It turns on more women than they would admit!" .. doesn't this line of yours give answer to what you are asking in the post?

You yourself are looking for some Tall, Dark and Handsome, so shouldn't the guy looking for the opposite. Somebody mentioned like attracts like like, i totally disagree, wasnt it "opposite attracts?".

Isn't it unfair that you are unwilling to change your preference but asking others to change, as the first comment point out, its basic chemistry biology whatever.

If I take your words, I wouldn't stand any chance in front of any girl, I am exactly opp of TDH, haha. But, still I would not force other girls to change their preference, even if that means loss for me.

Why we always give preference to society than individuals, one extreme or other, MCP or feminist. Can't a guy or girl have basic freedom to state what he likes? Strange.

Having said all that, I see the problem only when we get too far with our Fair and Thin philosophy, that's what you wanted to say in the beginning I guess. I agree on that part. But, one cannot force that every girl should be should be dark and fat, just like every girl should be fair and thin, just like every guy should be tall, dark and handsome.

Thoda adjust maadi karo yaar. Feminist is not the answer for MCPs.... kahi beech mein adjust karo.

humbl devil said...

thin and fair!!!
yucks...
hehehe

and i hate kareena...dunno y..never liked tht chick...

for me, the gal should have brains at the least before anything else...

by the way did you know, that TDH actually meant tall(height), dark(hair-colour:P) & handsome???

but somehow it has come to be interpreted to be skin colour mostly ion the sub-continent...
:)

Nefariousoutlook said...

hear hear !!

very well put lady :)

you can never have the best of all the worlds :)

you have to be what u want to be and enjoy that for that matter :)

Vaudevillian said...

welcome to the modern world; a world flowing with sickening mendacity at every single step.
materialistic reasoning at its worst, this. beauty? temporary "happiness" you mean?
sometimes an illusion which manages to cloak all vice only to turn expose the very same vice and make life hell?
too bad a very large number of dumb "youth" logic has sunk itself breaking into the borders of so called "love prerequisites"

and whats with that ghastly mtv whatever show shits vile villa?
two inane jackasses going on a "date" with plastic girls begging to do literally anything for a few months on tv in hopes of kicking start a candy lifestyle?
what has the world come to, seriously.

phew. sorry 'bout that, I just had to let it all out.

ps. Konkana is mine!

Cяystal said...

Whre art thou ? :O

Anonymous said...

Miss banter, ki ho gaya ? who said not-so-good-looking people (men and women) are not worth a second glance? Vaise, I so agree with you.I have accumulated 75 Kg of nothing-but-fat and look like a hippo of late.Ab toh chemistry waali teacher bhi bhaav nai dengi what to talk of the girls of my class.

On a serious note,there indeed is a need for growing up as far as mentality is concerned.Still that rarely happens.I have seen people getting frustrated because of that.Though,I loved Konkana everytime she made sense (and fortunately she always does so )

Macadamia The Nut said...

I think its because some people (I use the word 'people' so avoid being termed a feminist :D :D) think from their *cough cough* and not from their head.

P.S. Always assuming that they can think for themselves though

P.S. P.S. Love this pic

Macadamia The Nut said...

I think its because some people (I use the word 'people' so avoid being termed a feminist :D :D) think from their *cough cough* and not from their head.

P.S. Always assuming that they can think for themselves though

P.S. P.S. Love this pic

Anindita said...

@ Aayushi

The world is tough and it is certainly believes in predilection even though no one would admit to it!! :|

I never said thin was sexy! It is just normal observation!! :D

And love is blind! :D
On a more personal note, way off the topic, though you don't care about the guy being hawt and everything; would you date someone shorter???? :D :D :D

Psst: You so don't need to answer that! ;) But I would like to know what you think! :D :D :D

@ Anurag

Erm, there are women who dig "milky white" men! I used that word because I had come across something like "Wanted milky white girl for multi-millionaire milky white son." in some matrimonial ad! :D It cracked me up so much that I had to use it!! :D :D :D

There is always hope! ;)

@ Mayz

But being human doesn't pardon our materialistic view on things! :)

Thanks for the blogroll!! :)

@ Shrav

*stands up and applauds*

Finally!!! Someone who is HONEST!!!!

Well, in spite of your honesty, why is thin in? I mean someone not so thin could be ten times more brilliant and alluring..! Why the obsession with the thin someone just coz you are thin? I have seen people dating who are on the opposite sides of the scale! :D And they look "cute" together! :)

@ Ankur

Well, I never said thin is sexy or that fair is beautiful!! I just asked why do we let them rule our heads when we do a second take on the road???!!!! Dark should never have been a taboo in the first place! That is what I was trying to say! :)

And personal choices.. Hmmm.. Back to square one then! :|

Anindita said...

@ Solitaire

Hehe.. You are on one of the most sarcastic blogger's site! Crudeness rocks here! DON'T be sorry!! :D

Yes, Bipasha is hot and has great assets to go with it! :)

@ Javits

Wait, you misunderstand! I never said Konkona is not beautiful. I just asked why she doesn't get the credit???!!!

P.S. I personally am in awe of the fact that she is that damn good! :)

@ Keshi

:) :) :)

I love the self confidence! :)

@ Cinderella

Firstly, congratulations! :)

Now, back to business. ;) There are people who don't fall for looks, but what I was asking is why most of them do! :D

Imagine dating a total eye candy and the moment he opens his mouth, we hear, "Ooga booga scratch, scratch!" Then the flashing grin reappears! :D
I had this kind of a simian ape in my class once! He was totally drool worthy and the moment he opened his mouth, people ran away. I am NOT exaggerating!! Hehe. He dated a total bimbo, so I guess their I.Q. matched! ;)

Pursuit of the glitteratti is justa part of the metamorphosis.

Hear Hear! :)

@ Solitaire

I agree with her too! :)

Anindita said...

@ Hemanth

I hope there are enough people to change them! :)

@ Chacha

Whoa! You wrote a blog post in itself!

First things first, NO that's not my preference! Do you see any sentence which admits that it is? It is a mere suggestion that the new obsession of fairness being equivalent to beauty or the handsome quotient! It is ridiculous! I am not asking anyone to change! I am putting forth my point of view!

As far as not willing to change, did you understand my post??!!!

The question which I wanted answered was something totally different and you have digressed with the random idea that I have put forth what I see/want in men! :O :O :O

As far as standing a chance concerns, wait; where did that come from? I just said that being tall dark and handsome turns on more women than they would admit! Why do you think I am speaking on behalf of the entire population??!!!

Why we always give preference to society than individuals, one extreme or other, MCP or feminist. Can't a guy or girl have basic freedom to state what he likes? Strange.

Erm, I didn't even understand the first sentence. Secondly, you make it sound like I am dragging you by the collar and asking you to get married this instant! Sheesh!! :D :D



one cannot force that every girl should be should be dark and fat,


Are you gonna make her undergo skin colour changing therapy or something???!!!! Dude, I think you totally missed the point!

No one can make someone like someone forcefully, but what I had put forward was why do we give a second take to the apparent "HOT" women and not to the people who are more inclined towards the darker and heavier side?! I am not asking anyone to like anyone!

Maybe you should read my post with a more open mind. I'm not a feminist. I am just asking why we do things the way we do???

Adjust.. I would if I had that many troubles! ;) Read again and let me know!!

Phew!

Anindita said...

@ Humble devil

On Kareena: My views exactly!

On TDH: I didn't know! :D :D :D

@ nefariousoutlook

:)

Gracias! :)

@ Metrosexual Monk

:D

shit vile villa *ROFLMAO*

Well, love and shit and all the dignity less women trying with get a date with 2 roadies rejects! :D

I would have thought they had some brains, but noooo!!

*sigh*

The world has lost it indeed! :(

PS: You have my blessings! ;)

@ aayushi

I'm right here! ;)

Just been busy with the three S's in life!

1. Studies *Boring*
2. Sleeping *No option*
3. Shopping *GRINS*

@ Mishra

:D

Awww.... Go exercise! :D
Then we will all drool over you!! *PROMISE*

Hmmmm.. Reality is difficult! Life, even harder!

@ Macadamia

P.S. Erm, some people can't think for themselves! Even if their life depended on it! :D

PS. PS. Thank you!

Akshay said...

Mere sapnon ki rani kab ayegi tu.....aaye rut mastani kab ayegi tu....

Anindita said...

Voh chal padi hain, bas ab kuchi palo mein aajayengi!

Erm, hold on. Wait a minute.

She was on an Air India flight. This is going to be one long wait! :|

The plane is delayed! :P

Tairebabs said...

I think the world we live in focus so much on beauty rather than brains. It is very sad indeed. Am surprised to know that it is not only in my country that people strive to be fair as against being dark skinned. I love good looking people and personally love to look good but always I put the personality first. Looks are not enough for me and I do not define people by them.

Sujata said...

Very thought provoking and well communicated post. Anamika, even though I am a behavioral health professional, I struggle with these questions too. Keep writing.

Anonymous said...

Well I know I credit her.. ;) and that is all that matters eh? lol. Thanks for the blog-roll such a honor. :) Can I blogroll you too?

chacha said...

kool man... :)
yeah i noted too while writing that my comment is getting too big to be almost called a post, haha.
Khair, reading yr comments, we are on same page (quite literally too :))
may be half I got it bit wrong and half my comments(post) was not lucid enuf...

Express said...

Hey cool write up!

The entire kareena episode is very amusing. Even though its her personal life and she can do w/e she wants to, but the zero figure thing has acted as a perfect template for so many people to talk about. and yes indeed, its nothing but bullshit.

But the situation I believe has changed great deal. And people who want to fall for each other r doing so despite the "looks".

As far as the post is concered, yes a lil attention does'nt hurt, but do smart women really care?

P.S. Tanned men sure turn-on more women ;-)

Keshi said...

gotta be self-confident. or all the worms will climb on my face :)

*HUGS* n ty!


Keshi.

Heart'n'Soul said...

Hey whr u been??? mssin 4 long now

Mysterious Mia said...

ah babes.....i like wat u wrote...

btw i do believe that one shud just go for the looks of the person be it guy or gal....cos looks cna change man.....told he is handsome morrow he could be ugly, today she is thin morrow she cud be fat....but the brains n the character of the person will stay with him forever......

n yeah i agree with u on the tan for guys......infact i think a tan on women looks hot man....

Anindita said...

@ tairebabs

It sadly enough happens everywhere.. IT is a good thing that you put personality first! :) Me too!!

Same pinch! :D

@ Sujata

Thank you.

Err.. My name isn't Anamika! :D

@ Javits

Sure, go ahead! And stop making it sound like I honoured you with the title SIR or sommat! :P

@ Chacha

Are we on the same page?? :|

@ Express

Hmmm.. Very few smart women care but then again, some do! :D

@ Keshi

Now, where did these worms come from??? :P :P :P

*hugs*

@ Div

Err.. :P

@ Mia

:) :) :)

Hear hear!

aneri_masi said...

oh i don't know...what i have realized is that people eventually end up with the ones they are comfortable with...whether they are black or white...doesn't matter.
when i was in college, i was kinda glad i was this not-so-attractive one because then i knew my friends liked me coz they really knew me!

Anindita said...

Well, that's another perspective altogether! I love it! :)

Bhai with Chai said...

What you've jotted down is true.. but then that's initially..
People end up with people with whom they can be comfortable, share
thoughts, share life..

tall, thin, fat, short, chubby, tan , fair.. nothing matters..!

ps : Guys DO NOT find Kareena hot..
It's rather the stupid girls who're going all - I wana be size whatever!

chacha said...

yes i guess, comments are still spanning one page only and it will always...

Unknown said...

I love you. Really.

I thought *I* was the only one who thought that way!

Yay!
There are others!

Wandering Minstrel said...

FINALLY!! the world is thinking!!
i loved the post!!

god!! the way guys go gaga over stick thin, anorexic n fair girls!! but yeah, i guess in the end, you'll stick with the one you really fall for..amen :)

thankfully I'm sparing the world another kareena!! "bachpan se mujhe shaadi karne ka bahut shauk hai..yackety yackety yacket" and she gets the best actress award for jab we met???

peace
swati

rantravereflect/ jane said...

tits come in pink and brown
dic&@ come in inches and diameters
sizes come in zeros and hundreds
hair comes in curly and straight
color comes in fair n dark
heee
but when it comes to sex, tits
, dicks. sizes,hair n color, mannnnnn they all have a damn good time, no matter what the variation..

life's like sex- it doesn't really matter cos ya can live it like a friggyn king/queen, no matter how you're packaged :)


lassi-bean

Anonymous said...

aah i love ur new blog skin!!
ur so right..i know guys who'd rather be with bimbettes than a woman who gives them a hard time intellectually speaking :p

jeez..men are *&^%$$#@ it's so goddam irritating!

it's tiem the women of the world heard their inner voice and did something to claim that feminity can still triumph despite the sub-standards that men proclaim they are born with :p

Cheers!

Vyoma..

I learnt drums once..but gave up..couldnt find a better teacher than my previous one..and its been real long since i met my teacher, its time i should :)

chacha said...

@Jane:
did you write that or got it somewhere, quite clear thinking , so clear perspective, are you from some diff planet ??? haha :D

Meghna said...

sure...who says I ain't LOL!
Exactly :P

Pay a visit soon :P

Anindita said...

@ Bhai with chai

Hmmm.. True! There are too many girls going I wanna be size zero that it bothers me! There is this girl who eats just 2 biscuits a day and one cup of tea to attain a "GOOD" figure! Thats it! It is freakishly scary...!!!

@ Chacha

:)

@ Shrutilaya

Hehe.. :)

There are a lot of people concerned, very few who voice their opinions! :)

Welcome to my blog. Hope to see you here more often! :)

@ the soul/swati

Thank you! Welcome to my blog.. :)

But Kareena won the best actress award before her size zero frame came into the picture! :)

Hope to see you around more often! :)

@ Jane

*stand up and applauds*

I love u girl! :) Ahem, and you thoughts too!! :D

@ Vyzz

Thank you!

I hope women start valuing themselves more! These absolutely don't know what they are and what they are capable of, just valuing themselves by the way they look! *sigh*

We need more liberated women! :)

Cheers. ^^

@ Meghna

:D

I will! :)

Sorry for being away!

Bhai with Chai said...

2 biscuits and a cup of tea??
I'm ashamed! Unless they're 6 in number, I don't feel like I've had biscuits!
:D ;o)

Wandering Minstrel said...

sure thing! urs is an interesting blog
and my ref to kareena was solely cuz i looorrvvffeeee konkona!! i pity them who think aishwarya/kareena can act! :P

do drop by my blog sometime
peace
swati

Anindita said...

@ bhai with chai

Exactly! :P

@ the soul

Will do mate! :)
Cheers. ^^

Anonymous said...

yeah, guys can be stupid like that, but there are still some good guys out there.. super hard to find though lol

oh, and i'm naturally tan.. i like it =D

Ashish Surana said...

Not every guy is same, exceptions do exist !! :)

But then 90 % of guys do think the same way, rest 10 % becomes a minority !!! This is the kind of society we live in and we all are responsible for it !!!

Keep Posting !!!

Anindita said...

@ Noelia~

Very very rare to find actually! :D

@ Ashish

Yup! The minority status becomes an issue!

busy-writer said...

Ditto!
Falling for only the looks and havin the looks-factor as a priority is so superficial and lame!
In the end, all that matters is that you like the person for what he reallly is, from the inside, and that 'you're' (special emphasis, cause tis all bout the 'you' and not what everybody else thinks!) are attracted to him!

btw, hola! tis been centuries since i was last here!

Anindita said...

Hola! It is so superficial! You have to understand a person, not their looks! Not many people understand that!! Hope to see you here more often busy girl! ;)